{"data":{"id":"55366624-4d65-44ae-9faa-1226f2167f64","originKind":"SYNDICATED","title":"Love and deception: Leduc author pens account of romance fraud","summary":"From an online pairing to a sudden parting, Catrina Dumont’s love affair with the man she calls “Danny” in her memoir is interwoven with the deceptions she learned about almost too late.\n\nTheirs was a whirlwind courtship in the summer of 2024 — a sublime, fairy-tale soulmate connection. He was charismatic, attentive, and kind.\n\nIt was mystical, a rare connection — a match of kindred souls, a heart match.\n\nShe thought.\n\n“We moved in very quickly, because we knew we were both in love, and we thought, we’re both at that age where it’s, ‘Why wait?’ and we didn’t want to do a long-distance relationship,” she said.\n\nThe stars of compatibility seemed to have aligned for the Leduc resident, an independent businesswoman with two grown sons from a previous marriage of 27 years.\n\nHe was divorced after a long marriage, as well — or so she thought.\n\nThe year that followed was something of a roller coaster. Her loving, devoted, terminally ill darling urgently needed a kidney so they could enjoy many years together.\n\nTests revealed a miraculous connection of another sort — she was a tissue match to be a living kidney donor. Surely, beyond coincidence, a magical, fated connection.\n\n“For us to be a match was just a miracle to us,” she recalled.\n\n“I knew I was donating a kidney, and I was documenting everything, because I wanted to write about our love story, because it was so incredible.”\n\nWhat was hers, was his.\n\nThey scoured the calendar for the earliest possible surgical date, and made plans to wed.\n\nAnd he was very grateful that she loved him enough to give him a kidney.\n\nThere were signs of strange inconsistency, but with the rose-coloured glasses of love, Dumont dismissed them as medication-related.\n\n“His true behaviour started coming out, and that’s when I started noticing the gaslighting behaviour,” she recalled.\n\nShe’d read enough to know that failing kidneys could affect cognitive function, so she gave him the benefit of some very big doubts.\n\nIn love, exhausted and stressed to the max, with Danny 18 hours a day, waiting to hear if he’d be the same man she loved, or if he’d die.\n\nDanny came out of the coma.\n\nBut puzzle pieces were clicking into place.\n\nIn July, 2025, Catrina Dumont got a call from a stranger — a friend of a mutual friend.\n\n“I’m going to give you some information about this individual. You can do what you choose or not,” the woman told her.\n\nDumont listened, thunderstruck to an account of the wake of havoc Danny left behind.\n\nMany troubled relationships, marriages, fiancées, and infidelities. A web of financial predation on innocent women. Illicit drugs and steroid abuse. Harrowing domestic violence.\n\nMultiple double-lives.\n\n“And then, of course, the fear set in. This man was in my house. I couldn’t wait to get him out of my home,” she said.\n\n“It was huge for me, but I was willing to stand in my power and speak my truth.”\n\nHe left. She changed the locks.\n\nLooking back, Dumont believes other than the love she felt for Danny, none of the romance was real.\n\n“If I wouldn’t have gotten that call, who knows how long this game would have went on for? The universe just intervened at the right time,” Dumont said.\n\nShe spent half a year in Mexico on a healing journey — writing Dialysis of the Soul: A Love Story, A Psychopath, and a Woman’s Truth — started as a memoir of idyllic love, ending up a cautionary tale.\n\nShe offers some dating advice to others vulnerable to predation.\n\nDue diligence before true love. Don’t assume they’re who they say they are. Watch for red flags. Listen to your gut.\n\n“That feeling’s there for a reason,” she said.\n\nDumont’s dating someone else she met online — more carefully.\n\n“As funny as this sounds, I do believe our person is out there,” she said.\n\n“You can either curl up in the corner, or you can turn pain into power and create the destiny that you deserve and you want.\n\n“What got me to the place that I am today is self-love. You can choose to self-destruct and hold a grudge, or you can choose to love yourself and move on.”\n\njcarmichael@postmedia.com\n\nRelated Edmonton writer breaks new ground with picture book for seniors with dementia\n\nEdmonton social media guru pens children’s book focused on fertility struggles\n\nBookmark our website and support our journalism: Don’t miss the news you need to know — add EdmontonJournal.com and EdmontonSun.com to your bookmarks and sign up for our newsletters here.\n\nYou can also support our journalism by becoming a digital subscriber. Subscribers gain unlimited access to The Edmonton Journal, Edmonton Sun, National Post and 13 other Canadian news sites. Support us by subscribing today: The Edmonton Journal | The Edmonton Sun.","url":"https://edmontonjournal.com/entertainment/books/love-and-deception-leduc-author-pens-account-of-romance-fraud","imageUrl":"https://smartcdn.gprod.postmedia.digital/edmontonjournal/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/catrina-dumont-3996.ej_302404066.jpg","publishedAt":"2026-07-15T21:15:02.000Z","sourceLabel":"Edmonton Journal Music","tags":["Books","Local News","News"],"authorName":"Jackie Carmichael","contentHtml":"<img alt=\"Catrina Dumont talks on Thursday, April 2, 2026, in Leduc. about her experience of getting pulled into a relationship with a man who deceived her but was willing to take a donated kidney from her.\" src=\"https://smartcdn.gprod.postmedia.digital/edmontonjournal/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/catrina-dumont-3996.ej_302404066.jpg\" title=\"Catrina Dumont talks on Thursday, April 2, 2026, in Leduc. about her experience of getting pulled into a relationship with a man who deceived her but was willing to take a donated kidney from her.\" /><p> From an online pairing to a sudden parting, Catrina Dumont’s love affair with the man she calls “Danny” in her memoir is interwoven with the deceptions she learned about almost too late. </p><p> Theirs was a whirlwind courtship in the summer of 2024 — a sublime, fairy-tale soulmate connection. He was charismatic, attentive, and kind. </p><p> It was mystical, a rare connection — a match of kindred souls, a heart match. </p><p> She thought. </p><p> “We moved in very quickly, because we knew we were both in love, and we thought, we’re both at that age where it’s, ‘Why wait?’ and we didn’t want to do a long-distance relationship,” she said. </p><p> The stars of compatibility seemed to have aligned for the Leduc resident, an independent businesswoman with two grown sons from a previous marriage of 27 years. </p><p> He was divorced after a long marriage, as well — or so she thought. </p><p> The year that followed was something of a roller coaster. Her loving, devoted, terminally ill darling urgently needed a kidney so they could enjoy many years together. </p><p> Tests revealed a miraculous connection of another sort — she was a tissue match to be a living kidney donor. Surely, beyond coincidence, a magical, fated connection. </p><p> “For us to be a match was just a miracle to us,” she recalled. </p><p> “I knew I was donating a kidney, and I was documenting everything, because I wanted to write about our love story, because it was so incredible.” </p><p> What was hers, was his. </p><p> They scoured the calendar for the earliest possible surgical date, and made plans to wed. </p><p> And he was very grateful that she loved him enough to give him a kidney. </p><p> There were signs of strange inconsistency, but with the rose-coloured glasses of love, Dumont dismissed them as medication-related. </p><p> “His true behaviour started coming out, and that’s when I started noticing the gaslighting behaviour,” she recalled. </p><img alt=\" The cover of Catrina Dumont’s new book, out March 31.\" src=\"https://smartcdn.gprod.postmedia.digital/edmontonjournal/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/0327-lr-book-preview-2.lr_302250560.jpg\" title=\" The cover of Catrina Dumont’s new book, out March 31.\" /><p> She’d read enough to know that failing kidneys could affect cognitive function, so she gave him the benefit of some very big doubts. </p><p> In love, exhausted and stressed to the max, with Danny 18 hours a day, waiting to hear if he’d be the same man she loved, or if he’d die. </p><p> Danny came out of the coma. </p><p> But puzzle pieces were clicking into place. </p><p> In July, 2025, Catrina Dumont got a call from a stranger — a friend of a mutual friend. </p><p> “I’m going to give you some information about this individual. You can do what you choose or not,” the woman told her. </p><p> Dumont listened, thunderstruck to an account of the wake of havoc Danny left behind. </p><p> Many troubled relationships, marriages, fiancées, and infidelities. A web of financial predation on innocent women. Illicit drugs and steroid abuse. Harrowing domestic violence. </p><p> Multiple double-lives. </p><p> “And then, of course, the fear set in. This man was in my house. I couldn’t wait to get him out of my home,” she said. </p><p> “It was huge for me, but I was willing to stand in my power and speak my truth.” </p><p> He left. She changed the locks. </p><p> Looking back, Dumont believes other than the love she felt for Danny, none of the romance was real. </p><p> “If I wouldn’t have gotten that call, who knows how long this game would have went on for? The universe just intervened at the right time,” Dumont said. </p><p> She spent half a year in Mexico on a healing journey — writing Dialysis of the Soul: A Love Story, A Psychopath, and a Woman’s Truth — started as a memoir of idyllic love, ending up a cautionary tale. </p><p> She offers some dating advice to others vulnerable to predation. </p><p> Due diligence before true love. Don’t assume they’re who they say they are. Watch for red flags. Listen to your gut. </p><p> “That feeling’s there for a reason,” she said. </p><p> Dumont’s dating someone else she met online — more carefully. </p><p> “As funny as this sounds, I do believe our person is out there,” she said. </p><p> “You can either curl up in the corner, or you can turn pain into power and create the destiny that you deserve and you want. </p><p> “What got me to the place that I am today is self-love. You can choose to self-destruct and hold a grudge, or you can choose to love yourself and move on.” </p><p> <a href=\"mailto:jcarmichael@postmedia.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">jcarmichael@postmedia.com </a> </p><h2>Related</h2><ul><li><a href=\"https://edmontonjournal.com/entertainment/edmonton-writer-breaks-new-ground-with-picture-book-for-seniors-with-dementia\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Edmonton writer breaks new ground with picture book for seniors with dementia</a></li><li><a href=\"https://edmontonjournal.com/entertainment/books/edmonton-linda-hoang-childrens-book-fertility-struggles\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Edmonton social media guru pens children’s book focused on fertility struggles</a></li></ul><p> <strong>Bookmark our website and support our journalism:</strong><em>Don’t miss the news you need to know — add <a href=\"http://edmontonjournal.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">EdmontonJournal.com</a> and <a href=\"http://edmontonsun.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">EdmontonSun.com</a> to your bookmarks and <a href=\"https://edmontonjournal.com/newsletters/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">sign up for our newsletters here.</a></em> </p><p> <em>You can also support our journalism by becoming a digital subscriber. 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